@windsonged,
There were too many points that would need clarification in your first post, for me to have time for all the necessary typing. Therefore I'll just reply to a couple of your questions.
windsonged wrote:how do I find a good local drive recovery place?
As a starting point, I would ask for recommendations on this forum. There are several respected members who work for DR companies in various parts of the USA. You didn't list a state for your location, so that makes it difficult for readers to know if they are local to you, or not. It is common for DR companies to receive drives via national (and sometimes international) shipping, so personally I would prefer to use a good DR company, even if that means shipping to a different state, than to use a local DR company who is less good.
windsonged wrote:Is moving the same as a deletion as far as the hard drive is concerned?
From a Windows perspective, a "move" is a "copy" followed by a "delete" on the source filesystem.