Thank you for the info fzabkar,
I was under the impression that if I get a board from the approximate same date with same specs, that has not been flashed, it should work. My board is fine, except for the contacts from the PCB to the drive.
I get connection with the drive and see the data if I plug the drive in about 50-100 times on external USB, this is naturally not ideal when trying to recover data

, but i have recovered about 135GB of the 260GB this way, but now out of luck. The drive boots up for about 30 sec. then freezes up again. I initially tried nondestructive recovery with a few different professional programs, that did not work at all, tried to recover through Linux, did not work, then Win 7 and with a little patience, voila, half recovered, I guess i will stop cursing Mr. Gates

I will contact the site you suggested and see if they can assist me with this. If you think of anything else i can do then I would appreciate the input.